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Céline Gray

I write (anonymously) about everything I learned from 25+ years of dating up and marrying up (twice). If this is something that appeals to you, subscribe to my monthly newsletter where i talk (unapologetically) about hypergamy strategy, money, glamour, gold-digging economics, and how to make it to the top...the woman way...and be happy! (Guaranteed Fluff-free).

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The BTS of building wealth through hypergamy (My experience) + Business & life lessons.

Céline Gray The behind-the-scenes of building wealth through hypergamy (My experience) + Business & life lessons. What millionaire wives don't tell you. Hello my dear, I hope this newsletter finds you well. But if you’re not feeling your best, that’s okay—it will get better, it always does. As usual, I’ve missed you a lot. Today’s newsletter delves into the behind-the-scenes of building wealth through hypergamy. I’ll be sharing my own lived experience and the valuable lessons I’ve learned...
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The ethnicity of my ex-husband... how many times have i been married... Is my real name Celine ?

Céline Gray The ethnicity of my ex-husband... how many times have i been married... Is my real name Celine ? ↓ Hello ladies, I hope you had a pleasant weekend. In my previous newsletters, part 1 and part 2 I talked about my first hypergamous marriage and how it changed the trajectory of my life. In addition to a detailed breakdown of the financial dynamic, I had with my ex-husband before and after marriage. Before I go into the final chapter, I want to answer a few questions I received from...
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The financial details of an ultra-hypergamous marriage (My experience)

Céline Gray The financial details of an ultra-hypergamous marriage (My experience) ↓ Hello again, In my previous newsletter (read here), I talked about my short-lived period as a stay-at-home wife to my ex-husband and how it didn’t suit me personally, the circumstances of my very first business endeavor and much more... Now let me tell you about: The financial details of what it’s like to be married into a higher socio-economic class when you’re from a lower economic class. The relationship...
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What it is like to be a rich housewife and why I am no longer one.

Céline Gray What it is like to be a rich housewife and why I am no longer one. ↓ In this newsletter, you will find: A quick recap of who I am. What it’s like being married to a wealthy man How and WHY I went from engineer to housewife to my first husband, and a peak inside my life back then. How my first marriage kick-started my business ventures and how it helped me create my own wealth. Hello hello, my sweet girlie, Well… It’s been a minute! I know, I know! you’re probably mad at me for...
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Misconceptions about hypergamy and why some women don't achieve it?

Céline Gray Misconceptions about hypergamy and why some women don't achieve it? ↓ Hello beautiful ladies, I was talking to a young woman from this group and she asked me some very interesting questions, so I thought of sharing them with my answers: Q: What’s the biggest misconception you see going around in the hypergamy/level-up online community since you joined it? A: That good high-earning men don’t care about the woman’s financial situation or her standing in the social hierarchy. Not...
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Marrying a provider doesn't automatically mean being in a hypergamous marriage.

Céline Gray Marrying a provider doesn't automatically mean being in a hypergamous marriage. ↓ Hello ladies, I commented on a post from an anonymous lady in another group and i wanted to share it here so we can all discuss it and learn something. The post : Ladies who're married to a provider and protector and still make an income. Can you tell me what are the things you contribute financially at home? Or what are the things that is okay for us to contribute on? Can you please help me clarify...
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My first high-fashion trick + Best gold-digging tip!

Céline Gray My first high-fashion trick + Best gold-digging tip! ↓ Hello girlies, I was in my early 20s, freshly graduated, and clueless about fashion and styling. I had just broken up with a baby "boyfriend" (2-month relationship) whose only relevance to the story is a pair of earrings he had given me and that I sold the same week I broke up with him. Why? Because I didn't need earrings. I needed a wardrobe upgrade for the corporate world. Back then the only thing I knew about fashion and...
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Does my husband pay for my expensive lifestyle?

Celine Gray Does my husband pay for my expensive lifestyle? and should he? ↓ Hello sweet girlies, I wanted to share with you an interesting conversation I had with a lovely lady in the Facebook group here regarding my last newsletters about fashion and chic allure. She had some interesting questions about the economics of my lifestyle (which I can gladly answer). Whether or not my husband pays for my “expensive wardrobe” and clothing-related expenses like the stylist and personal shopper....
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Means of glamour and state-of-the-art chicness (part-2)

Celine Gray December 11th Means of glamour and state-of-the-art chicness + Slideshow (part-2) ↓ Part-1.....So here is how I go about it. I have a person, who is also a friend now and whose services I employ for almost a decade now (she has other clients, She is not an employee of mine). She does everything related to clothing and accessories for me. She coordinates the tailoring and the pairing…in addition to sourcing the clothes. She knows my colors, my personal style, my lifestyle, my...
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